Paul has been an elite All American athlete at Uni. Competing in Swimming, Diving and Lacrosse. He also coached at the prestigious Univ. of North Carolina were he was head coach for 8 years. More recently he has competed at the top level in Hawaiian Canoe Racing and Free Diving Spearfishing.

On Men's Groups:

“ Leading Men’s Groups is a natural extension of my coaching/teaching. It has become a way for me to give back to others.  All our life experiences are a path for other men to learn and grow. As we get older, our value increases and we can mentor those seriously searching for a meaningful life.”

On Relationship:

Relationship is the fire that tests our values and gives is a mirror for growth. We are in relations with many: our partner, our family, our friends and those we hardly know. It is how conscious we can be in all these situations that defines who we are.   

Costs and investments:

I work on a sliding scale. I don’t want money to be an issue whereby someone is unable to get help. In my experience money is often a major issue with people who have suffered serious abuse. My fee is $75 for a trauma session of 1-2 hrs. This is negotiable in all circumstances.

Men's Groups have a nominal fee of $10 per session and a commitment for the duration of the group.  

Mens Group One day Workshop

Open Sacred Space : All Guides

Groundrules:  Confidentiality - “I” Statements - Feelings - Truth – Cross Talk – Chakras

Explain  Process of Rounds

Round 1:   3 mins  Intro  “Who are you ?”

Exercise:   Eye gazing / “Looking Thing”

Round 2:   Issues :  Abuse, Anger, Fear, Sadness, Sex, Love, Relationship, Foregivemess,  $$$  , Thankfulness , Power

Round 3:   Circle Work 

Lunch

Exercise:   Massage  Exchange

Check In:

Round 4 :  Circle Work

Closing Bonus:  Tantra Lovemaking /  How to satisfy a Women

Close Sacred Space:  Thankfulness / Gratitude

Bibliography:

Peter Levine  “Waking the Tiger “    Trauma

Florence Shinn  “The Game of Life “   Universal Principals

Margo Anand   “The Art of Sexual Ecstacy”   Tantra

John Gray   “Mars… Venus “   Relationship

Sondra Ray  Any Rebirthing

Tony Robbins  NLP